SingingLass is yet another staunchly loyal admin at Kimkins. Since it’s apparent she has no plans to leave the sinking ship today, we thought we’d add her profile at this time.
SingingLass’ name is Delaney. She’s frequented many message boards prior to joining Kimkins. In fact, she was a prolific poster at Low Carb Friends until a few months ago. Her last post in that forum was June 26, 2007.
Yesterday she scurried around the internet editing content of posts made back in 2002 when she started posting online and happened to reveal a tragedy in her teen years. We are not making light of this incident, but are including it only to show that she is well aware of what she is currently doing inside Kimkins and that her past posts remain fair game in all this.
The cache of her original posts remains. It may help explain her pathology in all of this with Kimkins. We’ve included it for accuracy, not entertainment and are truly sorry she had to experience such a violation in her youth.
While she’s singing the praises of Kimkins these days, she has had health complications while on the diet.
Well, despite how little I have been eating….not only did I not lose anything the last four days, but it shows me as being a pound up. ::sniffle::
I have been really sluggish today…got up for a couple hours then fell back asleep at noon for almost another four, and STILL feel tired. My legs are also very sore, at first I was what the….then remembered I spent several hours sitting in a folded kneel position yesterday while putting together the photo board. Headachey too. I guess just everything that has been going on and rushing around, lack of sleep ect……would have felt better if I had seen some weight loss though.
In a hair forum online she was scolded by the moderators for her unbelievable advice about hair loss.
But, what we find rather amusing is that in her profile she includes among her occupation(s) ‘Psychic Consultant’, which may explain her rather bizarre rants in private messages and private admin forum posts with Kimmer.
There you have it, some history on the one and only SingingLass who is quick to ban and remains at Kimkins. As we have for the other admins, we’re issuing a reminder that remaining on staff with Kimmer (Heidi Diaz) may be considered aiding and abetting.
Perhaps you should leave now SingingLass?
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For those wondering, yes, we are working on profiles for each of the remaining admins.
Unless of course they jump outta there before we get to post the profile!
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EDITED to remove textual context of sites SingingLass is deleting content from. If one wants to read the cache it is here, but it a tragedy for any teen girl.
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September 19, 2007 at 8:13 pm
Kim
I’m not discounting anything she’s gone through in her past – it sounds horrible. But it seems obvious by her own words that she wants/needs to feel needed and Heidi is undoubtedly giving her what she needs in that category. We all know Heidi could care less about her and is just using her…hopefully she’ll see this and realize that it’s time to leave.
September 19, 2007 at 8:20 pm
Singinglass
1. Posting someone’s tragedy like that, let alone something that occurred to a child… as a form of entertainment is down right low, wrong, if not sick. That has nothing to do with any of this or kimkins. Shame on anyone associated with someone who would stoop to such measures.
2.The post taken out of context about not eating much…was because my grandmother had just passed away and I was GRIEVING, and staying with family where low carb choices were limited. The photo board mentioned was constructed for my grandmother’s memorial.
3. That hair board thing was actually some post someone else made copying what was put up here at kimkins exposed, which was a twisted version of my original post on kimkins that was taken out of context .
While you are at it, how about drag around through the mud that I have two degrees after putting myself through college, and am a formally trained opera singer. I am sure people will find lots of fault there. 🙂
To anyone who uses my childhood experiences as entertainment, humor, or message board fodder…please think of your own daughters, sisters…mothers, your own experiences, and how you would feel for them to be put on display in such a callous manner. Regardless of what is going on with kimkins, I would hope and think that others out there would agree that is no where appropriate and request it be removed and kept out of this.
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Delaney, you should be fully aware we did not include the cached copy of your words for entertainment. The Kimkins situation is not entertainment, it is fraud and you are aiding and abetting a criminal in her enterprise. That’s a felony. Think about it.
We are sorry for what happened to you as a teen.
September 19, 2007 at 8:36 pm
Singinglass
Additionally….I just wanted to add, that the post being displayed detailing childhood experiences and PTSD was over five years ago during a difficult time. For anyone concerned, I have long since dealt with those issues, and am at present very content with myself and my life….in fact, I am very proud of the things I have accomplished for myself against those kind of odds. I still however think, using that kind of information in this context is wrong and is a violation of anyone who has had experiences of that nature.
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Are you proud of your work at Kimkins?
Are you proud of how you’re treating members who paid good money to be there?
Are you proud you’re aiding and abetting a criminal?
Are you proud you too may be indicted for your role in this situation?
September 19, 2007 at 8:39 pm
too bad kimmer
SingingLass when you join with fraud and help to commit a felony, EVERYTHING about you gets known to the world. That is how things work. If you don’t think that the prosecutor is going to pull this stuff up and use it on you, then you are terribly naive. Please leave the fraud behind so you don’t go to jail too. Make no mistake about it what Heidi has done is a felony.
September 19, 2007 at 8:39 pm
Kim
Uh, SingingLass – first of all, I don’t know if anybody was laughing and secondly, YOU posted it on a public chat room on the internet…any expectation of privacy there was gone long ago.
AND you should be ashamed of yourself, regardless of your past, in backing and continuing to assist a crook like Heidi in what she is doing. Did the “yelling” at a 14 year old girl who obviously had an ED bring out the same response in you? No, you kept defending Heidi, the site and that WOE.
So while you rant about how what was posted has nothing to do with Kimkins, half of what you posted has nothing to do with it either. Your education and training have nothing to do with posting what you do on that site.
I personally was on a post with you when you gave out advice to someone asking about an ulcer and told them to eat the yogurt to coat their stomach. Your degrees aren’t in medicine because any dr. would cringe at that advice.
You need to wake up and realize what’s going on and quit defending a crook…you will go down with her for doing her dirty work and the judge won’t care about your past…just about what you’ve done to further Heidi and her scams. You are her puppet and it’s so sad that you don’t even realize it. Take 2 minutes and step back from the situation, you’ll see it for yourself.
September 19, 2007 at 8:43 pm
Harlow
U guys r ridiculous. Give it up.KImmer rox. And she will be posting new pics and adding a webcam.
So bite it.
September 19, 2007 at 8:47 pm
Concerned about kimkins
“am a formally trained opera singer.”
Guess this gives new music to “It ain’t over till the fat lady sings?”
September 19, 2007 at 8:47 pm
Concerned about kimkins
I meant meaning. Oops
September 19, 2007 at 8:47 pm
Becky/Littlebit
Delaney – I am sorry for your past abuse and I certainly do agree that your childhood traumas should not have been dragged out into a larger arena than you were comfortable in sharing it originally. You should not be re-victimized, and i am upset about that. Shame, Ducky!!!
But, I have to tell you, in all honesty and compassion, that Heidi/Kimmer is playing you, and using you, and making you her victim in this scenario. Believe me, I know those games all too well. She is bringing you close so she can use and then discard you. She is an abuser. You are being re-victimized.
PLEASE, Delaney – you know I have gone to bat for you, and supported you in the past. I am not against you. i am BEGGING you to step back, take another look, and step away. PLEASE do not go down this road another step. It will not end well!
Ask yourself – Why did we all leave, Delaney? We had NOTHING to gain, and plenty to lose, in walking away from our friends, our support, and, for some of us, our income, too. What did we see that you haven’t seen yet?
I’d say give it time, and you’ll see it, too. But, Delaney, you may not have that time. PLEASE listen to that part of you that wonders what you have gotten yourself into, and whispers that something is not right.
You don’t need her. And, in fact, she does not need you. By the time you are out the door, she will have replaced you without another thought. You are merely an interchangeable object, her means to an end.
You are smart, and you’ve already survived a lot. You are better than this. You don’t need this. Walk away.
September 19, 2007 at 8:48 pm
Concerned about kimkins
Harlow you are a tard.
September 19, 2007 at 8:49 pm
shelby
Wow, your tune sure changes when YOU are the one on the defensive. I have seen your posts where you are very nasty to people asking for help.
If you post something on the INTERNET of all places, people read it, it is public domain. It sounds to me that you and Heidi seem to be the ones that are ‘entertained’ talking about members in PMs or on the admin board, and speaking derogatorily about them as well. Not much fun when the shoe is on the other foot is it?
September 19, 2007 at 8:50 pm
Scoble
I did not find this anything like “entertainment”. On the contrary it let’s people see why you are doing what you are doing. I have something like you experienced in my past and I know firsthand how it can affect our thinking, our perception of ourselves and the need we have to feel of value. Which is the ONLY reason I can see the need you seem to have at defending what is going on over their. Your prose make you appear to be an intelligent woman, but yet you are still there defending, aiding and abetting an obvious fraud. And what is worse, you don’t seem to mind it at all. And that is also what is so sad. And shame on you for sticking up for her and helping her with her agenda. In the end, she will take you down with her and she won’t even think twice. What a tragedy that is to add to your life as well.
September 19, 2007 at 8:51 pm
Maggie
SingingLass….Delaney…..I truly am sorry you had that happen to you as a teenager. It does leave me wondering though….the word Ducky used….your pathology now……could it be that you now feel a lot of control by being a kk admin? could it be that you’re somehow using it to feel better about yourself?
Please Delaney, leave Kimkins before you wind up arrested with Heidi!
September 19, 2007 at 8:54 pm
theTRUTH
Delaney,
I too think it goes too far to widen the audience of your past trauma. I feel sorry for you in that regard, but I am glad you have dealt with those issues.
Please listen to Becky. I have more of your PMs, but I won’t need to post them tomorrow if you can see the light. I’m not trying to blackmail you, here. I just don’t want to do it if I don’t have to.
September 19, 2007 at 8:58 pm
too bad kimmer
Delaney – listen to Becky, she’s trying to tell you something important. We can’t say it enough FELONY FELONY FELONY FELONY FELONY FELONY
September 19, 2007 at 8:59 pm
La Mesa
Hey shes an opera singer……Sing for us as heidi’s ship sinks!
September 19, 2007 at 8:59 pm
another curious onlooker
Becky, once again, well said. You truly are a caring and compassionate person. You understand how to get your point across with out insulting, which shows intelligence and maturity.
Concerned about kimkins, you should take a lesson. “tard?” Are you 12? A statement like that only shows ignorance. Of course, we can’t all come across as eloquently as Becky.
September 19, 2007 at 8:59 pm
LCer
I can’t speak for others, but I don’t see how anyone here sees SingingLass’s tragedy as entertainment. What it does do is provide some background as to why she seemingly enjoys the power of being an admin, someone who has control over others and can do to them what she wants.
I think it’s really hard for her to step back and see that she’s not very nice in the Kimkins forums and that she’s treating many, many people badly.
And we all know if you don’t want something public, don’t post it on the internet in a name you’ll be recognized under. Better yet, don’t post it online at all!
SingingLass, as others have begged you, it’s time for you to really look at all of this and realize we are not “haters,” nor are we “jealous,” nor are we trying to foil yours or anyone else’s weight loss. No, we’re trying to bring a criminal to justice and you happen to be in the way!
September 19, 2007 at 9:02 pm
La Mesa
2 degrees and you are still dumb enough to work for heidi???
September 19, 2007 at 9:07 pm
Concerned about kimkins
Sorry curious, I should have said? Moron? Harlow, if serious, just stated that Heidi is going to do a web cam show and really show us all that she’s for real. If you believe that you are mentally bereft. Sorry. I will concede that tard was a bit childish. I will go for dense next time if that suits you.
September 19, 2007 at 9:17 pm
feeling crapped on
I really doubt that anyone is “laughing” at what happened to you or is being “entertained” by it. Paranoid much?
Touting your successes to me is useless. I don’t care what you’ve done in the past. I care about what you are doing now.
September 19, 2007 at 9:25 pm
La Mesa
Naw…I’d go with Tard for both Harlow and Curious at this point!
September 19, 2007 at 9:32 pm
Mir
I, too, can vouch that reading about SingingLass’s past pains made me SYMPATHIZE, not laugh. That, however, doesn’t excuse her facilitating a sociopathic scammer.
I hope, I really hope, SinglingLass leaves Kimkins and moves to another forum with low-carbers who are doing it sanely, safely, well, and without the controlling con-artist behavior of Heidi Diaz.
I can’t believe ANYONE thought that was posted to ridicule. Maybe it wasn’t the best call Ducky made, but I don’t think it was malicious.
I do think Heidi is malicious, and SingingLass’ aiding and abetting makes her part of the “bad guys”. Stop it, SL. Just quit.
Mir
September 19, 2007 at 9:34 pm
JenX
LMFAO @ it ain’t over till the fat lady sings. Truly.
September 19, 2007 at 9:36 pm
OddManOut
If she’s a psychic, she’s not very good is she? She should have seen Kimmertanic sinking a long time ago.
September 19, 2007 at 9:44 pm
kimkinssmith
The tragedies of the past never excuse the trespasses of the now.
Delaney. So many people love you and care about you at LCF and other places. You are important beyond labels and administrative buttons.
Those whispers in your ear are being made with poison lips.
Please come home.
September 19, 2007 at 9:47 pm
another curious onlooker
La Mesa…do you realize how ignorant you sound?
Do you know anyone, personally, who is mentally retarded? Throwing around the term “tard” is rude and offensive. I work with mentally retarded (mild, moderate, & severe) people every day. A mentally retarded person is not at fault for how they were born. Using the term “tard” is as bad as saying “that’s gay.” Or, do you have a problem with homosexuals as well? Who’s next? Blacks? People of Polish decent? Jewish people?
Why is it some people can’t get their point across without being rude?
September 19, 2007 at 9:47 pm
Down with Kimkins!
Okay I missed the post. Can someone point me in the correct direction of:
If one wants to read the cache it is here
Where is here? I think my comp is a lttle outdated!
Sorry to sound so obtuse.
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Doh! Link is now at the text ‘it is here’.
September 19, 2007 at 9:49 pm
Kim
Delaney, Becky speaks very wise words. She is not capable of friendship. She is using you, like she used the rest of us. PLEASE read and re-read, and then read again what Becky posted above.
September 19, 2007 at 9:50 pm
antikimkinslblogspot.com
Nobody’s laughing, its tragic – but hey, you lie down with dogs, etc. etc. Seeiing how nasty StingingLass has been to the poor victims at Kimkins, I have ZERO sympathy for her. I say, everything is fair game. She sure was laughing behind the scenes with that evil criminal Heidi while they made fun of the members and planned to hurt them. But oh, you don’t like it when its YOU on the hot seat!
I say SINK HER right along with Kimmer!! Birds of a feather should drown together!
I’ll save my compassion for those innocent folks being scammed by Heidi and Stinginglass and TipsyToes!
September 19, 2007 at 9:52 pm
Sweetie
SingingLass- I am so sorry for all the bad in your life and I am happy to hear that over the past 5 years you have been able to overcome it. i’m sorry, but I do agree with Ducky on the point of being an admin makes you feel needed. I don’t agree that your story should have been posted here, but YOU did post it for the whole world to see. I was still on the Kimkins boards when you first became an admin and you do take your “position” way to far and serious. I do hope for all the wrong you are doing that you are atleast getting paid. (Not saying getting paid makes it right). I too hung on after all the contraversy (sp) first strted hoping Kimmer would prove all the anti-kimkinners wrong, but she didn’t and want. She doesn’t even try to defend herself.
You where so quick to jump in about how wrong it is to post your life, so plese jump in here and tell us what you think is Kimmers side. Did she lose weight? Does she have foster kids? Is she a fraud? Are you going down with her? Why isn’t she defending herself when she knows there are lawsuites agianst her? And please be as bold as you are on the kimkins site when you are banning people for having questions.
September 19, 2007 at 9:53 pm
antikimkinslblogspot.com
It’s funny to me how you can talk about being a child of God in your confession, but you join in with treating people like crap and scamming them along with a con artist. How do you think God feels about THAT, StingingLass?
September 19, 2007 at 9:54 pm
Sweetie
Oh Down with Kimkins- Click on that statement
“If one wants to read the cache it is here”
It’ll take you to it.
September 19, 2007 at 10:08 pm
Keeping Secrets
Delaney, you know what it feels like to fight hard to tell the truth about something that is happening only to be silenced, right?
Please look hard at your actions. You are inadvertently helping an abuser silence her victims and witnesses about her abuse of their trust. When you grow up in a dysfunctional family it feels natural and safe to keep secrets, but you aren’t helping to make Kimkins.com a safe place. You’re helping the abuser continue to betray and exploit more people.
September 19, 2007 at 10:15 pm
WatchingFromHere
Cached pages get updated and are lost, but the Way Back Machine pages aren’t lost. You can even pick your return date.
http://www.archive.org/index.php
September 19, 2007 at 10:18 pm
Janice
Does SingingLass have Ducky on speed dial or what? How long was the post up before she added her first comment? It couldn’t have been long, the first comment was only seven minutes before she posted something!
And SingingLass, no what happened to you is not at all funny or entertaining, but it does shed some light on your actions and reactions in the Kimkins site.
Do you even regret how you treated that 14-yo now?
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From the point we released the post live until SingingLass commented was 19 minutes. Interesting observation Janice! Definitely speaks volumes about how often they’re visiting here.
September 19, 2007 at 10:25 pm
theTRUTH
From the point we released the post live until SingingLass commented was 19 minutes. Interesting observation Janice! Definitely speaks volumes about how often they’re visiting here.
Or, maybe she is psychic…
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Oh yeah, that’s the ticket!
September 19, 2007 at 10:26 pm
Gaynell
Becky (littlebit) ~ that was a beautiful heart-touching post. If Singing Lass does not step down after reading that, I’m terribly afraid her heart has turned as stone cold as Kimmer’s.
Saying a prayer tonight for Delaney.
September 19, 2007 at 11:05 pm
Me
I am going to sound like a total bitch, but I don’t care.
I was molested by my real father from about 3-9. I was raped at 16. Yeah it sucked, and I do not wish it on anyone.
I think for SL to try and hide behind those things is the biggest but of bullshit I have ever heard.
She sickens me. Many, many people have gone through traumatic things and are not power-hungry jerks with their heads up their ass.
I hope she rots in hell right next to Kimmer and Tippy Toes.
September 19, 2007 at 11:28 pm
devil
Singinglass,
It is horrible what happened to you and I don’t think anyone is making light of it. . . but what you’re doing over there is horrible, too. Unfortunately, lots of individuals who have been abused turn into abusers themselves. You are VERY harsh sometimes when posting to people there. . . you are scaring people over there, censoring them, and making them feel shunned & alone. . . you didn’t like it, why would you want to do it to anyone else?
Please listen when Becky tells you that Heidi is NOT your friend; she does not care for you, she only cares for herself. Kimkinssmith and others here DO care about you. . .listen to them and break the cycle and finally break free.
September 19, 2007 at 11:29 pm
Stiff
I’m so glad I never trusted in Kimmer that much.
When I first joined in June (and not from WW…I didn’t even know about it!), I was so stoked to realize that she really did PM people. I had just had a ‘trigger’ in my own life which brought on much of the same pain SingingLass spoke about. For me, I felt if I lost the weight, all those parts of me would fade. They never bothered me growing up.
I nearly PMed and told Kimmer all about it in hopes I’d get affirmation, something…I’m so glad I didn’t.
I’m well now, but still…wow. Thank the heavens.
September 19, 2007 at 11:48 pm
La Mesa
“Do you even regret how you treated that 14-yo now?”
Exactly! and Curious..please get off your high horse I don’t really care what you think about what I have to say.
September 19, 2007 at 11:53 pm
Mayberryfan
This whole thing confirms that my radar isn’t totally broken. While I fell for Kimmer’s lies and need to destroy others, I always felt that SingingLass wanted to be an admin over at KK’s to be loved and accepted. Call it women’s intution! Hey, we ALL want to be accepted, so no shame in that, SL! But, you need to protect yourself and go ahead and admit that you fell for K’s lies like a lot of good folks did. You are getting used. Be strong! Don’t let someone like her take advantage of you – GET OUT NOW.
God bless, SL. You’ve had it rough. Sorry!
September 20, 2007 at 12:04 am
Sue
It is a tragedy what happened to you Singing Lass but nobody is seeing it as entertainment. Let go of the victim mentality and stand up to Kimmer. Don’t play a big part in turning members into victims. You know what its like to be a victim. You have a choice to do right by people.
September 20, 2007 at 12:32 am
another curious onlooker
Better to take the high ground…lest you crawl with the slugs.
September 20, 2007 at 12:33 am
another curious onlooker
Better to take the high road…lest you crawl with the slugs.
September 20, 2007 at 1:04 am
I’m concerned too
And if none of the above pleas reach into some part of your brain just keep saying this word to yourself: FELONY FELONY FELONY FELONY
September 20, 2007 at 2:48 am
justanotherduck
SingingLass, no one is laughing at your past. What you endured is horrible and criminal, and no one should have to suffer through those things.
BUT, lot’s of people were abused and mistreated as a child. I was, too… please don’t use that as an excuse to mistreat others! Go the other way– use that heightened sensitivity to care for others, to help them. And no, verbally abusing Kimkins visitors and fronting a fraud DOES not count as help.
I understand that it’s tempting to want to grab power wherever you can. You had no control as a child and now you do… it’s a strong urge, but fight it! You don’t want to be an abuser. You’re a surviver… and you’re better than that.
September 20, 2007 at 10:08 am
WOW
God, I am not touching this with a ten foot pole, either side, except to say this whole thing is getting way out of hand.
September 21, 2007 at 11:54 am
Jen Billing
singinglass-you told kimmer a bunch of lies about me that subsequently got me banned….
i dont care about being banned so much because i will get my money back and we will see to it that kimmer goes to prison over this scam…
i do care that lies were told about me and my particpation on the forums, and the lies were told by you….
are you a big enough woman (no pun intended) to apologize to me for those libelous lies?
or are you cut from the same cloth as the almighty kimmer, in which case you have no perception of reality whatsoever, and relish your cyber-”importance”
you still have time to retreat and get out from under kimmers spell…
show us that you have the morals and dignity to do so….